My mom is mad and disappointed with me? -

I lost my iPod nano 3rd generation today and I told my mom. I got straight A s for the whole year to earn that. When I told her she was mad and said that I don t appreciate what she does for me. I had the iPod for 2 years and she put a lot of money into that. The iPod situation kind of bothers me. The thing I m worried about is that my mom thinks I don t appreciate what she does. I m so confused I don t know what to do.|::::|Just tell her how sorry you are. I mean you carried the thing for 2 years, so you weren t careless with it, Everybody makes mistakes. Tell her how much you appreciate her.|::::|Write your mom a letter. She may hear you if you write to her. In the letter let her know that you love her and that you are grateful for all that she has done for you. You might even want to mention some of the things she has done. Then explain to her that it really hurt you when she told you that you don t appreciate her. Let her know that you understand she was hurt by you losing your iPod nano because she put a lot of money into it. Tell your mom that you had the iPod nano for 2 years and you didn t lose it, nor break it. Unfortunately today you just had a mishap and you are truly sorry. Let your mom know that you want her to find it in her heart to forgive you. Mention that you are not looking for another one. You only want her to understand that you appreciate her and couldn t ask for a better mom. Sometimes writing for me is easier than talking with people face to face. All you have to do is place the letter somewhere where she will get it. Don t hand it to her place it somewhere without her seeing you do it. Don t tell her. This way they can read it in their own time and process it before confronting you about it. In the meantime don t worry yourself to much. You know it was an accident and accidents happen. Forgive yourself for losing it and don t worry about your mom feeling like you don t appreciate her. Have confidence with you even when you mess up because while you are walking around bothered your mom has gone on about her business. Your stressed she s not.|::::|It s the holidays; she s short on money, and stressed out. Write her a nice card about how much you love and appreciate her. Offer to help with the dishes or take out the garbage; do something before she asks you to do it. Tell her thank you when she brings you dinner. If she just cleaned the house, tell her how nice you think it looks. It s the little things. And DON T ask her to buy you another one!! She ll flip out.|::::|Talk. Speak. Use your mouth.. lol. Tell her that you really do appreciate it. You are really sorry about losing it. If you have an idea of where it might be see if she will help you look for it. Just express your feelings so your mom knows that you do appreciate what she does and yada yada yada... If the A s thing is bugging you talk about that too. whatever floats your boat.|::::|its not your fault you had it for two years and you earned it with good grades i wish i was that smart my i touch got stolen from me now that s not fair just tell your mom your sorry and give her a hug nothing else and go to your room trust me it works your mom should come back and tell you its ok