Is it worth getting married to a woman in the 21st century? -

It seems a lot of American women only look at the short term and whats the best guy with the most money or will have money in the future. Then, turn around and divorce him in 2 to 20 years to take half of their earned wealth.|::::|There are women out there like that. Perhaps you should be more careful in screening potential marriage partners. It is worth getting married, but only to the right person.|::::|Of course it is worth getting married! You just haven t found the right woman yet. I, for one, have never understood this whole stereotype about women being money hungry. I have never judged a man by his salary ever. My only concern was if he was happy and passionate about his career choice. Material things hold little value with me. As long as I have my necessities and maybe the internet connection and a few books here and there then I am as happy as a bed bug. There are women out there that are not shallow, you just have to look. I could ask quot;Why do men think women have to be a perfect size 8 when none of them have washboard abs?quot; Because you know there are some men out there that think like this. But there are also more caring and intelligent men as well. Keep looking. When you find the right one then you won t be able to live without her.|::::|It sounds to me that you are so busy thinking about what she is going to take from you than what you are going to create together. Remember, marriage is a partnership. Partnership for life. There is a reason why law allows women these rights that they should deserve. If you can t trust her, then, don t get into a partnership until you can find one you can trust and behold. I am not here to judge what happens in other people s life, because men and women alike can be just as evil and greedy and possessive and controlling. On the other hand they can be loving, loyal, trustworthy, dedicated and contributing. We are human, we all have good and bad. Just find someone who makes you feel like you bring the best out of each other and not the worse. That means, do not let your sexual organ make the decision. Good luck!|::::|I wouldn t agree completely that woman, in any part of the world is only after money. Of course there is a minority out of it but there are also some that I blv the foundation of the relationship began in the wrong way. ie match-making, imbalance of lifestyle etc. They were just not suppose to be together to begin with but it happened, so it was just a corrective measure to end it for the better of everyone?|::::|A question may be either a linguistic expression used to make a request for information, or else the request itself made by such an expression. This information is provided with an answer. Questions are normally put or asked using interrogative sentences. But they can also be put by imperative sentences, which normally express commands: quot;Tell me what 2 + 2 isquot;; conversely, some expressions, such as quot;Would you pass the butter?quot;, have the grammatical form of questions but actually function as requests for action, not for answers. (A phrase such as this could, theoretically, also be viewed not merely as a request but as an observation of the other person s desire to comply with the request given.)|::::|i had gave up my power of love in order to protect my quot;so callquot; marriage. it means that i can not fall in love with any other male (including my husband) for the rest of my life. i can t love any man anymore. with this quot;can t lovequot; magic in me, i m so happy with my invisible husband as long as he is bringing back money every month end. if i were given a 2nd chance, i definitely will not marry again, no matter in what century.|::::|Well, perhaps men should stop marrying trophy wives and said women should stop freeloading. Perhaps if people started relationships based on personality rather than looks and money more relationships would be successful. Oh and please don t forget that plenty of men are golddiggers as well.|::::|not all of us are like that........you know guys can be assholes too......I ve been dating a guy for a year, he s been treating me like **** for a month now and I m getting sick of it.......I thought I wanted to Marry him, but I changed my mind.....NO. MARRIAGE IS NOT WORTH IT. Not in this day and age atleast.|::::|You have a point....maybe a woman from the l6th century would be best for you..... perhaps you should contact the people who MJ contacted to freeze him they may know a way to go back in time..... good luck. Your happiness is all I care for.|::::|I totally agree with Woogs. Definitely don t get married until you know for sure you are attracting the right kind of woman for you. If you are never positive you have the right one, then never get married. Easy enough.|::::|You are so right. These women disgust me and I feel like women are just way more selfish then they used to when people stayed together forever back in the day. Women stayed with men for the money back then too so I guess its all about what you can give them..|::::|You need to look at yourself if this is the kind of women you are attracting. I m not trying to be rude. I really mean it. When you attract a certain type of person to you, look at yourself to see what you are projecting.|::::|Why should you when you can have everything without getting married?|::::|Maybe a very long engagement would be better.|::::|Who or what would you rather marry in the 21st century? A goat?? Really.... c mon. If it doesn t sound that great; just say NO.