I earn more than most of my friends. i end up lending them money that i never get back. what do i do? -

i m always buying drinks so we can go out together. i think they think because i m on good money then i dont need to be paid back. i never actually ask for anything back because i m too embarrased and i know they cant afford it. am i being taken for a mug?|::::|Stop being taken for a ride by your friends and stop loaning them money. if you are going out with these friends, don t pay, tell them it is about time they put their hand in their own pocket and paid. You do this a few times and you will be surprised at how little they drink and you may even notice how few continue to go out with you. Yes you are being taken for a mug and you know it, you shouldn t need to buy friends.|::::|Just stop lending it out come right out with it. You have too tell them that you cant just keep lending out all your money. You have too be straight with them you cant just let them take it. Soon they will ask for more. They have a job they should use there own money (advice.4you@live.co.uk for more advice)|::::|No you aren t. You want to go out with people who otherwise wouldn t because they can t afford it. So you re paying for their company. If you didn t, you would have no social life. It all depends on whether the price is too high.|::::|Ugh! Why aere people like you so kind! Stop it, they don t deserve it! I m taking it you are not a teen...they need to grow up and pay for themselves, they don t need their friend paying for them, they aren t babys!|::::|Pretend you forgot your wallet then see who will buy you a drink , dont be surprised if they take their time , you deserve better friends hope you find them , cheers,|::::|Yes, sort of, maybe you need to find better friends? A real friend will pay their own way or make it up to you in other ways.|::::|Stop lending money to your friends.|::::|Zip that wallet on em.