I want to run away. advice? -

This may seem really immature.... but i want to leave. I really am bothered by my family. Im trying not to sound cliche but I really cant take this. I cant this extreme strain on making good grades. i make good grades all ready and im really not that smart. They act like im someone who is capable of incredibly high greades because at my old school, in like 6th grade, it was way too easy... I cant make them all like 95 s at this new school because it is really hard. hardest in state. best in region. I want to pursue a career in music prodction which i am happy they support. but i try to get into DJing and they take it as a joke. they say they support my career but they claim that im fake and dont like music. I asked for turntable for christmas and they dont want to get them for me because they say they are a waste even though i have a whole business plan lined up which i have explained to them many times when they ask. they dont seem to listen or take me seriosuly. I want to leave and goto manhattan or some large metropolis where I can focus on my life and try to self make myself. Im not concerned with failure... if i cant do it, i guess i will be homeless. a bum.I feel like they say they care because it makes them feel good about themselves but they never take action. i have even offered to buy all the equipment with my hard earned money and they wont let me do it then! I want to drive away. I could sell my car and try to work something out up there...|::::|continue with school and what you want to do.. prove to your parents that this isnt a joke..have you thought of ideas in the past that you wanted to do and gave up on them and thats why your parents think that this might be the same deal..or is this for sure what you want to do, if so then you should let your parents know that you are serious about it..get that job, prove them wrong.|::::|I was in the same situation except my mother was abusive. She ended up kicking me out, I lived in my car, and my dad is thinking about divorce.. But what convinced even my parents was this: After many attempts to convince them I wanted to buy turntables and be a dj, i was tired of the rejection and being blown off as if I was going through some quot;phasequot;. Do this, sit them down and look them in the eyes as you talk to them to let them know your serious AND sincere. Tell them you really love this music and spent a lot of effort planning things out, tell them the plans might not go as planned but atleast youre still living your passion in music. tell them if they dont want to help, then for christmas you re going to make your own money and buy them yourself. thats what i did and my dad changed his WHOLE attitude toward me.. he bought me a full deck and Im a mobile dj now. The most important thing is this man... do something like what i stated above. AKA do something that lets them know you re sincere, that let s them know you re not as immature as they may think. and hey, if you re lucky enough for them to meet you halfway and listen to you... then make some compromise, don t try to win the whole thing. Parents aren t allowed to let you do that haha. Meet in the middle and make some compromise. If nothing works and you just must leave... go to a relative s. If you want to move to a big business area, then take 2 grand with you. or dont bother trying, for your sake. I ll pray for you man|::::|ok, DONT DO IT DONT DONT DONT DONT DONT if you cant stand it there get a job save up money get a apartment or stay with another family member get a job to support your self then get training to pusue your career and try ur business plan once your living fine are paining bills and hav a steady job. but i say dont do it, bad idea, i pray for you kid, youd be giving up love and care if you cant stand it there ease out buy saving up and making it on yourown, dont run away and ruin your relation ship and your life|::::|run away as far as you can go if you should turn back then you will know if not you should start a new life some were else|::::|don t run away its not the answer to any problem,stay in school graduate ,with out education you won t make your dreams come true, the more education you have the better chance you have of getting what you want,no place will hire you with out the proper education,if you really want to make it in life its going to take hard work, hang in their an concentrate on school(.good luck to you)