Should I still see him? -

Okay... we both are Indian, from different castes. There is very thin line of possibility for us to get married right away. Initially my bf wanted to see me and I agreed just to see if it worked out. I didn t want any physical relationship at all and didn t know if he were quot;the onequot;. We were very good friends before and that s how we know each other. He said he won t be marrying for another 3 yrs and that he would earn enough money to come and ask my dad about us. We ve been in a relation for about 3 months now. Well, I did fall in love with him and he says he has too. He never fails to tell me he loves me and make me feel good. But there has never been any kind of the sweet lover surprises or romantic outings. Very rarely we would go out and that too because i would put my foot down and force him (we had initially agreed to keep our relation a secret). But later realized that we could go out just like friends and no body would have to doubt it, and strictly no PDA. Recently, he started saying that we getting married would hurt my family and that he doesn t want to do it. I have a younger sister and she MIGHT be effected due to my marriage. That s all he has for a reason to tell me we wont be marrying. We now have a physical relation too. Now, I don t know what to do. He says he loves me but can t marry me and we are not ready to leave each other. I feel like I have been played or let me say I have been allowing him to play me. I know I can t fix my virginity but what should I do next? its funny and tricky, coz he loves me and every time I say break up he asks me for a reason and tells me he can t live without me. What should i tell him if I want to get rid of him? And I hate myself for being in this situation.|::::|no. you don t have to see him if physical alone the end of your meeting. you are in a bad relationship. without physical, it will be a heavenly relationship. he doesn t make marriage proposal, wants to be physically close. not a healthy move from him. if he is ready to marry fine and will be good. now, don t see him and gradually get rid of his relationship quot;IF at all Physicalquot;only. after some time find a suitable person or get in to arranged marriage. if,he continues good relationship again fine. you have to be wise too.|::::|This is the complicated situation where, either you have to choose your family or Love. So far family is concern its better to choose your family first because Your family amp; your sister s future depend upon you. Let try to avoid your friend amp; keep away form physical relation too. Whatever happened forget. Just sacrefice your love for your family. Thanks