Me and husband has been married for 4 years i love him so much but we argue alot about money,he never give any? -

money for bills or me and our child he earns much more money than me,we have separated before but got back together,he s got more time for his mom but me,they dont even talk to me for about a year now.i really want to sort things out but dont think he ll ever change.it stressing me out so much,should i tell him to leave or give him another chance|::::|Number one cause for divorce, are financial problems, then ya mix his mom into the mess and it just gets uglier, you can do whatever you want, but prepare yourself for him to have not changed, understand that maybe some time has gone by, but his self greed has not. This just sounds a bit on the dysfunctional side to me, but do what ya wish. And Good Luck|::::|Money and finances are one of the top causes for arguments and break ups in relationships. What were you expecting by coming on here? Do you think he s just saving it in a secret bank account, giving the money to a mistress? What do you really want us to say? Maybe he see s you over spending on useless things nobodies needs and tried to counter react to that by saving more money and not paying bills he doesn t find important.|::::|You ve already given him a chance to change....you say you were separated, but got back together. If he hasn t changed at all, then why would you consider another chance?? Seems to me his character is not going to change........so you have to decide if this is what you want for the rest of your life...........|::::|My thoughts are that this man is not committed to you nor is his family .....sometimes you need to let your head rule what is best for you rather than your heart. You may love him very much but I don t hink he is returning that commitment. Take time out to really look at where you stand here .... if you give him another chance, perhaps make it the last one that he has ...... you deserve better it seems and happiness can truly be found by moving on .... hope it happens for you.|::::|You know this is a form of abuse, right? And did you know that you do NOT deserve to be abused by ANYONE? It s up to YOU to end the abuse.|::::|If you are already paying for everything then just leave. The child support fairy will make sure he helps you then.|::::|you have to go with your instinct|::::|Pray mildred sent me