Question about Christmas gift from boyfriend...? -

I have been with my boyfriend (who is 20) for 6 years. Today he said he got my gift a while back and I asked the price range (to make sure mine was good enough). He said it was only $20. He spent 35, 40, and 50, on his three sisters. Also, he was given a lot of money to spend on presents, but bought mine before that and wasn t going to get me anything else, although he was given a lot of money to do so. I m really not trying to sound spoiled at all, I m just a little hurt. I have been working hard to earn money so that I could buy him a guitar... I just feel like he was being very cheap.|::::|Six years together is a long time to be with someone. I d be wondering why he would spend only 20 bucks. He bought it a while back? Well most men....about 95%....do not think of Christmas gifts that early. Wonder what it could be?? Now you have to wait and see what it is...without knowing more details of your relationship, it could be something fabulous, something he chose very carefully just for you. A great gift doesn t have to be expensive. On the other hand, it could be just a boring gift without much thought. Open it and see....it sounds like you are getting him a very special gift if you are getting the guitar. You should know by now if he is in fact cheap...is he cheap in other ways, do you notice that money is always an issue with him? If it s something that bothers you, don t think that you can change his ways as time goes on. You ll go year after year without feeling special and wondering why he wouldn t take time to get you something nice.|::::|Maybe he is trying to trick you, and it will end up being something really nice and over $20? My boyfriend just got me a $200 cell phone for Christmas, its nice and all..but I wouldn t really care if he got me something for $20, I wouldn t care if it was $2. I love him and how thoughtful he is, maybe you should think of your boyfriend like that too.|::::|I see what you mean..... but don t play to much into it. Guys don t always think of gift giving as important as we do. Besides, i see why you might be hurt cuz I ve been therre BUT in the end, it doesn t REALLY matter...... maybe he is messing with you but if not..... expect it and don t play to much into it... he s a guy...... I m sure he buys you dinner and stuff a ll the time anyways so just think of it like he buys you stuff all the time.|::::|it s hard to say how cheap he is an not know how he fill about you the money he spend on you should tell you how much he care about you so i would give him a gift to show him how i fill about him an forget about it a gift is a gift no matter how much it cost.|::::|It s not the price it s the thought that counts. How do you know he was telling you the truth? Maybe he got a really good buy on something. Besides it s rude to ask the amount a gift costs.|::::|He might be playing with you, setting you up for a surprise. If not then he will be cheap for the rest of his life and this is who he is. If you don t like it, then dump him.|::::|a safe present is always gift cards, maybe food cards(people have to eat)good luck and happy Holidays(M)|::::|Isn t it the thought that counts?