Why would a single woman with no kids want to babysit kids instead of get a job? -

My sister-in-law doesn t seem to want to get a job working with the public. Instead she wants to sit at home on her a** and watch kids. I can see, if she was married and her husband said quot;honey, I ll be the bread winner but you can watch kids to earn extra money if you want.quot; She will never have anything or make any real money if she goes down this path. There s no real future in this. I can t figure this b*tch out.|::::|This woman makes no sense. My Aunt is like this. I think its just laziness. If you or your spouse are supporting her financially anyway I d cut her off pronto. Seriously, at least get a real job and leave babysitting to 13 year old girls.|::::|Why don t you think watching kids is a job? Depending on how many kids she is watching that is how many personalities she is dealing with. You make it sound like she has kids on a counter and just stares at them. As far as I know kids are exhausting always have been always will be. You are just her brother in law and with the bad language in your question it sounds like there is a little more going on they your concerns about her future. Maybe she doesn t want things and doesn t need a lot of money. Its her future and remember you are married to her sister.|::::|Okay first of all maybe she cant have kids and ain t ready to tell anybody or only certain people know. Who knows. Maybe the economy has a big impact on it there are so many places that are not hiring at least where i am from. Personally in my situation im 19 and i love to babysit my baby cousins on week days ONLY because i love babies and im not ready to have one of my own yet. I still want to graduate from college then have one or a few. Also it shows me that im not ready for a child of my own.Or maybe she want to start a day care or something.|::::|That s a pretty mean way to look at it. Babysitting kids isn t always easy. It can be a hugely stressful job, but if she likes it and she s happy why do you care? She s doing an important job even if it isn t highly looked upon and she doesn t earn much money. If you really think she should do more with her life why not suggest she get a certificate in childcare if this is what makes her happy? Don t push it though. It s her life and she s not hurting you by living it.|::::|Maybe she just loves kids? You should help your sister-in-law out by telling her she should become a licensed daycare provider so at least she can start making a decent income out of that profession if she doesn t want to do anything else. FYI, just because you re at home watching kids doesn t mean you re sitting on your *** all day.|::::|maybe she likes kids, there is nothing wrong with that. i dont have kids, but i like hanging out with the neighbor, and i babysit for them when ever they need someone. i say she s got her own life, and u need to leave her alone if that s what she wants to do. there are always ppl. who need a baby sitter.|::::|she might be more comforable baby sitting, Why call her a b*tch,? you men need to look in the real world we don t call you man names, Umm maybe we just should. AND YES THERE IS FUTURE IN THAT. she might want to get use to kids, maybe to start her own family, maybe to start a career in nursing??!! DUHH!|::::|That s funny...quot;I can t figure this b*tch out.quot; Is she a good babysitter? It s not as easy as you think it takes a lot of patience and you have to be a caring person...at least to be good at it. Maybe she ll turn it into a lucrative business.|::::|Babysitting is kind of a job. She still gets paid right so why don t you just let her make her money. It s not easy, you need to take care of brats and that b*tch still has to more her a** or she ll get ******* up by the kids parents.|::::|Jason, your in-law lacks ambition and is lazy. She would rather quot;skatequot; through life without actually applying herself. It is folks like her that will forever cry about their luck without lifting a finger to try to change it. In a word...a quot;loserquot;.|::::|why is she a b*tch, she has the right to have a lack of motivation. She may be reminding herself how luck it is not to be responsible for kids of her own.|::::|Some people don t like working. Babysitting might be more comfortable for her.|::::|Cause she s probably very ugly and hasn t douched in over 10 years. No man wants to hit that|::::|How is that any of ur business? butt out of other ppl s life mind ur own business and stop calling her *****.