Question about marriage and feelings towards it? -

I am in my late 20 s and personally never want to get married. I have seen too many friends who have gone down that road and are married and miserable. I know all marriages are not like that as I have a few friends who are happy and would not change it. I had a conversation with a friend last week who is married. She always says to me I will meet a guy fall in love and get married. . .which annoys me. We were talking casually about views on marriage and I mentioned my feelings if I was to ever marry how I would want things. I think a marriage should be 50/50. That each person should have there own account and then an account for joint expenses. I am sorry if you both of you are working hard to earn money then equal money should be put into the relationship and the rest you earn for you. That there should be equal say and an understanding of one another. Each of us should have a room in the house that is strictly theirs to go to relax, decorated however they want and can be a place where they want to go to relax, because lets face it everyone needs there space in a relationship once in awhile. She laughed and thought I was crazy for thinking this way. I am sorry if I am in a relationship with someone there should be equal understanding and trust of each other and the space for it. Am I being unreasonable for thinking this way?|::::|You are right but to idealistic.I am not married but in a very long term relationship 15 years! Nothing will ever always be 50/50.It is give and take,20/80,60/40,but if the basics of what you both brought to the relationship stay intact it will work!!|::::|I agree with you... no marriage for me SteveC